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Naomi Robson chats with dating expert Katia Loisel-Furey about how to know if the one you’re with is a keeper.
The girls cover those very loud and clear signs that you’re in a bad relationship and are most likely wasting your time as well as the positive signs that you’re with the right person for you. Some fascinating insights for people at any stage of a relationship… to help you decide whether to stay or move on to get what you want.
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Howcast
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Flirting offers many rewards — you could meet someone special, it can boost your ego. But you also run the risk of being rejected. Learn how to deal with it in this video.
Rachael DeAlto: Rejection sucks.
Hunt Ethridge: It does.
Rachael: Big time. But, it’s a part of dating. It’s a part of flirting. It’s a part of life. You’re going to get rejected by people for love interests. And you’re going to get rejected for jobs. There’s a lot of stuff that, kind of, you have to deal with. So.
Hunt: It’s going to happen.
Rachael: Exactly. Let’s be practical here. How do we deal with rejection? My advice is basically to just get back on the horse. Realize that they make mint chocolate chip and strawberry for a reason. That not everybody is meant for you, but there is somebody out there that is. So, if you’re flirting with someone and they’re like, not interested, it’s so much better to get right back out there, and meet somebody else, and get that positive reinforcement…
Hunt: Yep.
Rachael: …than to go into the corner and be like, ‘Oh my gosh. They didn’t like me. Why am I here? Why do I even bother? I quit dating.’
Rachael: And this is one of the things, too, that talk to my clients about – the mindset too. Because the word reject is such a strong word, too.
Rachael: It is.
Hunt: To reject something really you have to know it, understand it, balance it against something else, and then choose one thing. We use the word, ‘I got rejected.’ No, no you didn’t. She doesn’t know anything about you.
Rachael: Yes.
Hunt: He doesn’t know anything about you. All it is is it’s a nonstarter. I used to be an actor. And when I would go in and hear no on my auditions I used to think it’s because…
Rachael: It’s me.
Hunt: It’s no to me. I’m not a good person. I’m not talented enough. I’m not smart enough. I’m not attractive enough. And the same thing when you go out and meet people. You realize, it isn’t.
Rachael: No.
Hunt: They don’t know you. They don’t know all your great qualities. They don’t know how funny you are. They don’t know how smart you are. It’s just not going, it’s just two ships passing in the wind…
Rachael: Yeah.
Hunt: …at that point.
Rachael: It’s a little cliche. It’s not about you. It’s about them. It’s their perception of you, which, honestly, you shouldn’t care about. So, you can get rejected for so many different reasons. You could get rejected because they’re in a relationship and they don’t want to go outside of it. You could get rejected because your hair’s the wrong color.
Hunt: You could get rejected because they didn’t get a good night of sleep last night…
Rachael: Exactly…
Hunt: and they just don’t want to talk to you.
Rachael: My God, don’t talk to me after not a good night of sleep. But those are all these things that you can’t know without actually getting inside their head. So, don’t spend so much time getting inside your head. Get back out there. Get on the horse. Have some more positive connections, and you’ll be surprised.
Hunt: Yep. If you go up and talk to somebody and it doesn’t go well, what did you lose? You lost 15 seconds, that’s it.
Rachael: Exactly.
Hunt: Everything else that you feel you lost is only in your head, so just change your mindset and get out there. It’ll allow you to really go after what you want.
YourTango
How to tell if your man loves you (when he doesn’t say it often): http://www.yourtango.com/201080166/ho…
Have you ever been so in love with someone that just being around him was enough to make you smile? From the way he rubs your feet after a long day at work to how he knows exactly what to say to make you feel better. There’s no greater feeling in the world than finding the person that you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. But not hearing the words “I Love You” can make things nerve racking. Just what are the signs he loves you?
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How do I know you know if he loves me? This is the question that I always giggle a little bit when I hear. The bottom line with two people and their love is that they make abundantly clear.
He should first tell you that he loves you but really actions speak louder than words.
When he asks you what do you need before he tells you sometimes when he needs..
He should show you in meaningful ways he’s trying to make you happy and to please you.
When he tries to please you when he does for you even if it’s not important for him.
It’’s not about the obvious tried gestures like sending flowers aren’t bringing chocolate but it’s in the details too.
The act itself of doing for the other even when it’s actually something that we would never do for ourselves that generosity is essential to know.
If he knows that you’re afraid of heights he’ll book a hotel room on the ground floor. If he knows you’re allergic to seafood he takes you to a steak restaurant. These are the little things that he does every single day to try to make you happy.
But the question I will also ask is how much do you need constant affirmation and confirmation that he does love you. Will he say how come you don’t know and show you in multiple ways and you will still say not enough because there’s a part of me that doesn’t really believe that I am lovable or that one could love me?
Simply from the fact that this is a question tells me that there is a small thought or perhaps even a large thought that he doesn’t. If you don’t clearly feel as if you were being loved and there’s a good chance that you might not be.
You know that a person loves you by the level of investment, care, attention, support, interest that the other person shows you.
We all communicate our love in certain ways but the bottom line is when we love we do communicate.
YourTango
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It’s pretty much a given that we will all run into drama at some point in our lives. Although we likely don’t seek it out, drama eventually finds us. This is painfully true when it comes to relationships. That just leads us to the following questions: Why do some people always find themselves in ‘dramatic’ relationships? Why do minor issues turn into life-or-death struggles for some of us?
What can we do to handle adversity better and not turn every molehill into a mountain?
The Relationship Help Doctor Dr. Rhoberta Shaler discusses techniques to get to the root of the problem and put things in a less urgent perspective. There’s no question that even in the healthiest relationship there will be adversity. That’s what makes being able to spot the signs of an impending fight so important. In the video above, she offers advice for high conflict couples but it can easily be applied to lower tension situations. You can even take it a step further by checking out her new book Kaizen for Couples: Smart Steps To Save, Sustain and Strengthen Your Relationship, which offers expert tips on ways you can save your relationship and stop drama in its tracks!
expertvillage
What are the rules of the dating game? Learn how to tell if someone is compatible with you in a relationship in this free love and dating advice video.
Expert: Antone Christopher
Bio: Antone Christopher is the author of 2 books, The Bitter Mans Guide to Dating & The Bitter Womans Guide to Dating.
Bobbi Palmer
Finding it hard to meet single men that you like, and wondering ‘How Can I Get More Dates?” Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup (http://DateLikeaGrownup.com) gives you a Top Tip to help you connect with, and get to know, more and more really good men. Watch it. You’re going to be surprised!
Howcast
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How to make a guy fall in love with you.
First off, I don’t believe in making someone do anything. Okay? But I will tell you about men is, we love the chase. Okay?
In my book ‘The Relationships Men Commit to and Why,’ I have a whole chapter devoted to what I call the love pie. So I want you to imagine a relationship like a big pie. Okay? I cut that pie in half. You do your half, he does his half. But, take a little bit away from that half. That one percent, so he’s always kind of chasing you. The best way for a man to fall in love with you, is when he’s coming towards you versus you coming towards him.
I don’t think you should make a man fall in love with you. He should naturally want to do it, because of your fantastic essence, of who you are. So forcing a man to do anything, rarely ever works. Okay? But men do like the chase. They like to come to you, and really, ultimately, he will fall in love with you, if he’s making the effort versus you doing all the work.
Let me tell you, if you’re forcing the relationship, that’s a warning sign that this relationship isn’t going to work. Relationships that flow are the relationships that last a lifetime, but if you’re making all the effort, and if you’re doing all the work, chances are he isn’t going to fall in love with you. It should be a natural balance, but give him and allow him the space to come to you. That’s the way men fall in love with you.
Date Right
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Joe Amoia
http://www.SmarterDatingForWomen.com Joe Amoia, The Smarter Dating Guy, discusses the 3 things that you can do to increase your chances that a guy will want to commit to you