The Real Reason Your Relationship Is Filled With Drama

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It’s pretty much a given that we will all run into drama at some point in our lives. Although we likely don’t seek it out, drama eventually finds us. This is painfully true when it comes to relationships. That just leads us to the following questions: Why do some people always find themselves in ‘dramatic’ relationships? Why do minor issues turn into life-or-death struggles for some of us?

What can we do to handle adversity better and not turn every molehill into a mountain?

The Relationship Help Doctor Dr. Rhoberta Shaler discusses techniques to get to the root of the problem and put things in a less urgent perspective. There’s no question that even in the healthiest relationship there will be adversity. That’s what makes being able to spot the signs of an impending fight so important. In the video above, she offers advice for high conflict couples but it can easily be applied to lower tension situations. You can even take it a step further by checking out her new book Kaizen for Couples: Smart Steps To Save, Sustain and Strengthen Your Relationship, which offers expert tips on ways you can save your relationship and stop drama in its tracks!

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I play for you….. I love how you love me….

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Performer by Carlo Gallozzi and his digital orchestra..

Edited by Carlo Gallozzi
Songwriters: Mann, Barry / Kolber, Larry
I Love How You Love Me

I love how your eyes close
Whenever you kiss me.
And when I’m away from you
I love how you miss me.
I love the way you always
treat me tenderly.
But darlin’ most of all,
I love how you love me

I love how your heart beats
whenever I hold you.
I love how you think of me
without being told to.
I love the way your touch
is always heavenly.
But darlin’ most of all
I love how you love me.

I love the way your touch
is always heavenly.
But darlin’ most of all
I love how you love me.

I love how you hug me
I love how you squeeze me,
tease me, please me
love how you love me

How to Initiate a First Kiss | Dating Tips

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So you’ve had the date and it’s going pretty well and you’re interesting in taking it a little step further. It’s natural progression so it’s how do you initiate that first kiss? How do you do it without being awkward? And frankly there’s really no set rules on this one. You just have to feel it. Don’t be all creepy, awkward and you know, hovering. You can’t just go in for it without warning, you have to kind of lead up to it a little bit. Get into an intimate position. Which means you can’t be three feet away and then just run in for it because you’re going to end up bumping and then it’s all a mess. It’s all about timing. It’s all about having the moment, being very close to one another, and then just leaning in. So you really just have to feel it and you have to go for it because you can’t start and stalk because that can get awkward, too. So you’re having a really beautiful moment, you’re looking at each other’s eyes, if you’re really close talking and you feel like you can get one out of her, go for it. Just be delicate at first. No tongue at first, at all. No teeth. Teeth are bad. No pecking. There’s no pecking. Pecking is for your friends or your mom on the cheek. It’s got to be soft and it has to be very soft and gentle at first and intimate but without actually getting too intimate. You know, because if you don’t get the same reaction from her you’re going to end up understanding that she’s not interested. If you’re getting a cheek from her as you’re going in for it, don’t move your face to meet her lips. So if you’re leaning in and she’s leaning away you’ll get the hint. But if she’s not moving anywhere or she’s moving towards you, it’s going to happen.

What cost are we paying trying to create the PERFECT life?

Does a “perfect life” even exist? Many people are on a relentless pursuit to find the perfect man, the perfect relationship, to limit stress, anger… any negative feelings that interfere with a happy life. But sad feelings are a part of life. Trying to push feelings away without working through whatever lies beneath them never works. If you want the perfect life, you have to accept the truth of where you are in your life. Life isn’t perfect. It’s messy. It’s challenging. It’s full of ups and downs. Trying to make it perfect will prevent you from enjoying all that life has to offer. In this video, Arielle Ford, Dr. Foojan Zeine, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, Renee Jain and Melanie Gorman talk over the pitfalls of trying to find a perfect life. They offer suggestions to move away from seeing perfection and tips how to let go and overcome perfectionism.