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Hi. I’m Faye de Muyshondt here with you today from Social Skills to teach you how to start a conversation. In so many cases we never learn how to start a conversation, and there’s an art to it. It’s funny. We learn so many things in our lives, how to drive a car, how to do math problems. We learn about science. We learn about Language Arts. But we never talk about how to start a conversation, and it’s one of the most important things that you need socially to be able to do.
In terms of starting a conversation, you always should be sure that you have things to talk about, and we all have things to talk about. You might think that you have nothing to talk about, but I can promise you you have plenty of things to talk about. Starting a conversation is all about asking a question to initiate the conversation. So you should always have things at your fingertips that you can ask anyone. Simple questions to ask anyone are, “How are you?” “How is your day going?” “How are things?” If you know the person, you can ask more specific questions. But after you make that initial introduction, have questions ready to ask someone.
And in terms of starting conversations, you also want to make sure that you have things to offer up in terms of your responses. So if someone were to ask you a question, “How’s your day going?” Rather than just saying “It’s fine,” or “Good,” move beyond the one-word responses. Have things to say and to share. Let’s face it. That’s what a conversation is all about. It’s about an exchange of information, communicating with one another.
So rather than my saying, “My day is going well,” I might say, “My day is going really well. I started out in Central Park with my dog on a nice long walk. And I went home, dropped my baby off, got myself ready for the office, and I’ve had a really terrific day at work. We did a shoot today.” So my whole example here is to show you that I’m giving more information, more information to let you know a little bit more about me. Those are the most important aspects to starting a conversation, and yes, keeping one going.
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You hear it all the time, communicating in marriage is the one single factor that can make a marriage strong or weak. You often hear people say that they “just don’t communicate anymore” the truth is in a lot of cases they never really did, at least not in a constructive way.
If you and your spouse have good communications skills right from the start, you will be able to avert many of the problems that plague a lot of marriages. People think that they communicate effectively, but rarely do, with their spouse and often even with other friends and family.
Communicating in marriage isn’t about talking all the time, it’s about listening too. That is the part most people fail at. You “pretend” to listen but in reality your mind is elsewhere. It’s easy to make excuses for that behavior saying things to yourself such as: “I don’t need to listen, she will just repeat it again in an hour” or “Here he goes again, covering the same old ground”.
The truth is that the reason your spouse repeats them self could well be a learned habit. You might have taught them very early on that you don’t really listen or pay attention to them when they talk. They may have developed the habit of repeating themselves just because they don’t think they are ever really being heard.
If that’s the case, it will take some time to reverse the trends, both them repeating themselves and you really learning to listen effectively. Having a counselor help the two of you form more effective methods of communication is a great idea too. Just re-learning some habits can make a world of difference, and with a counselor it’s far less likely that the two of you will get angry or defensive when you hear something less than flattering about yourself.
Another common problem is that one spouse is afraid to really tell the other how they feel. They may be afraid that their spouse will get angry or defensive, or they may be afraid that they will be mocked. Again, this is a pattern of behavior that has likely been in practice since the start of your marriage, but in the beginning the two of you were so in love that you chose to ignore it. Now, years later (and with some built up resentments) it’s harder to ignore.
This too will take some time to overcome and some practice to re-learn habits and patterns of behavior. You may want to get a counselor to help you with this problem too. Again, it’s a good idea to have a counselor point you both in the right direction and help keep the peace when necessary.
I know it sounds obvious, but most people don’t really think of it, but communicating in marriage starts with each individual in the marriage. If one or both of you has trouble really talking, or listening, than this is likely a lifelong problem and it will take some serious time and commitment to unlearn your bad habits and relearn better ones.
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Romantic marriages are rooted in respect, and with couples maintaining respectful tones of voice when communicating. Take time when building a romantic marriage with tips from a psychologist in this free video on marriage counseling.
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Improving communication in marriage can be as simple as speaking clearly about needs, wants and requirements. Be calm and avoid innuendos when communicating in a marriage with tips from a psychologist in this free video on marriage counseling.
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Everyone wants to fall in Love. But what to do if you’re tired of waiting for your Prince or Princess Charming to sweep you off your feet?
A common misconception among singles is that Love simply ‘happens’, like a bolt out of the blue. You simply wait for the right person to come along then – ‘bang!’, chemistry happens and you live happily ever after.
The truth is that you can INCREASE your chances of having someone fall in Love with you – here’s how, in 6 easy steps (Source: Harvard University):
1. The eyes have it: maintaining eye contact with someone 75% of the time is a sure sign of Love. If you’re glancing around the room and checking out others, you’ll soon watch your romantic evening fizzle.
2. I’m listening: being a good listener is the key to any good social interaction, and particularly if you’re with someone you care about. Practice ‘active listening’, ask follow up questions and take a genuine interest in what your partner’s saying. If you don’t find them interesting, it might be time for you (and them) to reconsider things.
3. How you make me feel: making your partner feel special and appreciated is an essential element of a strong Love connection. If spending time with you makes your partner feel like a winner, you’ll likely be spending a lot more time with them in the days and years to come.
4. A simple smile: the most simple of all gestures – a smile – sends a message of confidence, success, interest and positive charm. Here’s a test: when you’re dreaming of your perfect match, I’ll bet you’re both smiling? Lose the frown and you’ll soon lose your single life too.
5. The touch that says so much: in Love, words can only get you so far. Touching your partner often increases intimacy and, more than words, shows them exactly how you feel about them.
6. Make an effort: taking an active interest in your partner’s passions builds trust, and validates that person’s feelings about you. In other words: sharing a passion builds passion.
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Discover how getting your man to want to marry you is just like baking a cake. Watch to the end and you’ll understand exactly what it takes for him to see you as “the one”… just like you were Rihanna.
Do you know how to bake a cake?
If you do then you have what it takes to make your man want to marry you. To bake a cake you need a recipe and ingredients. You use the exact same things in dealing with your man.. a recipe and ingredients.
See, Its more about your man and HOW YOU MAKE HIM FEEL..so the other ingredient is simply your understanding about how a man views a relationship.
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