Dear Sybersue
Dear Sybersue is a Lifestyle Talk Show for Men & Women of all Ages! Canadian Talk Show Host Susan McCord AKA Dear Sybersue answers Marco’s question on whether he is too liberal with his conversation in the early stages with a new girl. Should he hold back how he feels and play a little more of a game to keep her interested? What do you think?
Dear Sybersue,
I am enjoying my dating life at the moment but I am still unsure whether my conversations are a bit too much sometimes. If I like a woman I compliment her and tell her things like I am attracted to her, enjoy her sense of humor, and tell her I would like to see her again…etc.
I am not into playing games and want to be honest from the first date!
Is this OK or should I be pulling back more and keep her guessing? I appreciate your time and look forward to hearing what you have to say!
Thank you, Marco
Susan McCord @ http://www.sybersue.com
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Joe Amoia
http://GPSforLove.com The Frustrations of Single Men Looking for Love
Do you think men have it easier? Think they don’t go thru some of the same crap that you go thru as they look for that special someone to share their life with?
In this video you will see that men who are looking for love are just as frustrated as you are and you’ll understand how the path to finding true love is just as difficult for a man as it is for a woman.
DatingAdvice ForMen
There are no hard and fast rules for calling after a first date, so just do what feels right and avoid waiting too long to call. Call, email or text someone after a first date whenever a comfort level is reached with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice.
Video Transcript
Rule no. 1, there are no rules. Rule no. 2, refer to rule no. 1. When should I call after a first date? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer girls, A Boomer Woman’s Guide to Men and Dating and host of Ask Dr. Paul. Don’t make rules for yourself. You know, there are a lot of things you can do after a first date. You can email, you can message, you can call. There’s nothing cast in stone. I get so tired of these, “how to date” books. I never put that in my book. Never. I don’t want you to set hard, fast rules. Be real! Okay. If you feel like calling this person, whether you’re a male or female, after that first date, do it. If it’s the next day, the next morning, late that night, whatever you feel comfortable with. There are no rules. Stop setting up blocks, because it’s a blockade and I see these things in ladies magazines, in men’s books. “How to seduce her”? Well, don’t call her for three days. “Hey Jack, you don’t call her for three days, somebody else will”. Wake up, get a life. That’s the way it works. Dr. Paul is somewhat of a merick, I maybe different from the relation consultants that, that you hear about and guess what? People come to me and ask me and they like what they hear. And by the way ladies, I have had, many, many, many women call after they’ve read my book saying, “you know what, I got engaged after reading your book”. “I got married after reading your book”. “There are some things I refine in the way I did things”. Alright. So rule no. 1, there are no rules. This is Dr. Paul. “May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow”. If you want to succeed at dating, you have to try, so as to achieve the perfect dating, dating advice and listen to, or watch some dating video, or some date movie, then go for a first date, so it will Not dating fail,become a dating losers. Finally you can to him courtship dating. This video from http://www.demandmedia.com/
existentialistcat
Mostly my opinions about dating.
1. Don’t pile on the expectations
2. Be honest and open about what you want
3. Leave some fun mystery to be discovered
4. If it doesn’t work out, move on
This is general, and not “how to date existentialistcat’ haha
healthyplaceblogs
http://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/
A first date can be incredibly nerve wracking, but this video provides quick and simple tips for helping you stay confident and secure. Men and women can both have a hard time feeling confident, this video helps you before the date and during. Good luck and go make some love connections
expertvillage
The rules of dating for men include abiding by the golden rule, listening intently to a women and maintaining eye contact. Know the male rules of dating with tips from a relationship specialist in this free video on dating.
Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
Sensuality Secrets
Dating Tips for Women by Patty Contenta. Patty is the founder and author of Sensuality Secrets, http://sensualitysecrets.com/ a book and DVD set that helps divorced women over 40 who are struggling with their body image feel sexy, feminine, confident, and attract quality male attention without looking cheap or trashy. Patty has become a sought after speaker and radio guest in North America.
Today’s question is Dear Patty, I feel like I’m constantly comparing myself to other women and all I see are all of the ways that I don’t measure up. I know this is unhealthy, but I just feel inadequate. What’s wrong with me and how can I break this bad habit?
I know that feeling all to well. I have had relationships that ended with the a guy dumping me. It would always start on a high note and then something would happen to change all of that. And I remember in those moments feeling like what could I have done better? Was I not enough of a woman for him to see my value? Why am I such a failure? Crazy thoughts like that!
I needed to do some deep inner work to remind myself of the beautiful woman that I am on the inside and out. I needed to be gentle with myself all over again. And I needed to change my thoughts…and fast!
I began by accepting myself for being where I am. This means, take that little girl and remind her every day how wonderful life is! With every tiny step and every thought, I was going to get my confidence back!
So I started by simplifying the meaning of love.
Watch the video and find out how I did just that!
For one of her dating tips please check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=konQo…
DatingAdvice ForMen
When talking to someone who doesn’t carry the conversation, ask a lot of questions that do not have yes or no answers and be prepared to listen attentively. Keep the conversation moving with someone by sharing information about yourself with tips from a professional dating coach in this free video on communication.
Video Transcript
Hi, this is Jessica Claire, with New York Dating Coach, in New York City. In this clip, we’re going to talk about how to talk to someone, who doesn’t carry the conversation. Some of us are talkers, and some of us are listeners, and that’s just the natural progression of life, but you can do a couple of things, to help people feel more comfortable, in a conversation with you. First, ask questions. The more questions you ask, the more likely it is, the other person will respond. Also, think of questions that are not yes or no questions, or single answer questions. Ask them how they feel about certain things. If you ask someone where they’re from, or where they went to school, you’re going to get maybe a one word response, or a two word response, but if you say, are you glad you chose, the college you chose? They have no choice, but to respond with an actual answer. Then, be prepared to listen attentively. They’ll give clues in their answer, as to how they felt about this place, or this thing, and you can respond by sharing something about yourself. This will keep the conversation moving. Also, change topics as many times as you like, this gets more reactions out of a person. This is Jessica Claire, with New York Dating Coach. This video from http://www.demandmedia.com/ This video from http://www.demandmedia.com/
Sensuality Secrets
Dating Conversation Tips with http://sensualitysecrets.com/ on how to flirt using your voice to create attraction through conversation.