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Something sexy? Something comfortable? A little black dress? Emily Morse, Julia Allison and Amy Laurent from Bravo’s ‘Miss Advised’ give their advice on what women should wear on a first date to make the best first impression.
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Have you ever gone on a first date and been so disappointed by the other person? Maybe they weren’t as attractive as their photos or maybe they had the personality of a rock. Or perhaps there was no connection or chemistry. No matter what, you just weren’t feeling it. First dates can be notoriously disappointing because we tend to get our hopes up about the other person. In this video, No Strings Dating teaches us how to manage our first date expectations so you don’t end up disappointed and frustrated.
expertvillage
Make the first move on a date by initiating non-aggressive physical contact, such as holding hands or touching their arm, and reading body language signals. Identify whether a date is interested in a first kiss with help from a relationship coach in this free video on dating and relationships.
Expert: Donna Barnes
Contact: www.donnabarnes.com
Bio: Donna Barnes is a professional life coach, relationship expert, television host, author, columnist and producer, based in New York City.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller
eHow
In order to creatively get to know someone on a first date, ask simple questions that are not intrusive. Get to know someone on a first date in an informal fashion with tips from the author of a dating book in this free video on relationship advice and first dates.
Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
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So you’ve had the date and it’s going pretty well and you’re interesting in taking it a little step further. It’s natural progression so it’s how do you initiate that first kiss? How do you do it without being awkward? And frankly there’s really no set rules on this one. You just have to feel it. Don’t be all creepy, awkward and you know, hovering. You can’t just go in for it without warning, you have to kind of lead up to it a little bit. Get into an intimate position. Which means you can’t be three feet away and then just run in for it because you’re going to end up bumping and then it’s all a mess. It’s all about timing. It’s all about having the moment, being very close to one another, and then just leaning in. So you really just have to feel it and you have to go for it because you can’t start and stalk because that can get awkward, too. So you’re having a really beautiful moment, you’re looking at each other’s eyes, if you’re really close talking and you feel like you can get one out of her, go for it. Just be delicate at first. No tongue at first, at all. No teeth. Teeth are bad. No pecking. There’s no pecking. Pecking is for your friends or your mom on the cheek. It’s got to be soft and it has to be very soft and gentle at first and intimate but without actually getting too intimate. You know, because if you don’t get the same reaction from her you’re going to end up understanding that she’s not interested. If you’re getting a cheek from her as you’re going in for it, don’t move your face to meet her lips. So if you’re leaning in and she’s leaning away you’ll get the hint. But if she’s not moving anywhere or she’s moving towards you, it’s going to happen.
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DatingAdvice ForMen
There are no hard and fast rules for calling after a first date, so just do what feels right and avoid waiting too long to call. Call, email or text someone after a first date whenever a comfort level is reached with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice.
Video Transcript
Rule no. 1, there are no rules. Rule no. 2, refer to rule no. 1. When should I call after a first date? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer girls, A Boomer Woman’s Guide to Men and Dating and host of Ask Dr. Paul. Don’t make rules for yourself. You know, there are a lot of things you can do after a first date. You can email, you can message, you can call. There’s nothing cast in stone. I get so tired of these, “how to date” books. I never put that in my book. Never. I don’t want you to set hard, fast rules. Be real! Okay. If you feel like calling this person, whether you’re a male or female, after that first date, do it. If it’s the next day, the next morning, late that night, whatever you feel comfortable with. There are no rules. Stop setting up blocks, because it’s a blockade and I see these things in ladies magazines, in men’s books. “How to seduce her”? Well, don’t call her for three days. “Hey Jack, you don’t call her for three days, somebody else will”. Wake up, get a life. That’s the way it works. Dr. Paul is somewhat of a merick, I maybe different from the relation consultants that, that you hear about and guess what? People come to me and ask me and they like what they hear. And by the way ladies, I have had, many, many, many women call after they’ve read my book saying, “you know what, I got engaged after reading your book”. “I got married after reading your book”. “There are some things I refine in the way I did things”. Alright. So rule no. 1, there are no rules. This is Dr. Paul. “May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow”. If you want to succeed at dating, you have to try, so as to achieve the perfect dating, dating advice and listen to, or watch some dating video, or some date movie, then go for a first date, so it will Not dating fail,become a dating losers. Finally you can to him courtship dating. This video from http://www.demandmedia.com/
existentialistcat
Mostly my opinions about dating.
1. Don’t pile on the expectations
2. Be honest and open about what you want
3. Leave some fun mystery to be discovered
4. If it doesn’t work out, move on
This is general, and not “how to date existentialistcat’ haha
expertvillage
When going on a blind date, it helps to keep options open, to meet in the daytime and to keep things light-hearted and free of expectations. Discover things to do on a first blind date with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice.
Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz