How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Everyone

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Patty Contenta discusses self-esteem and how to stop comparing yourself to everyone else.

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How Do I Stop The Divorce

Dana M. Fillmore, PsyD

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Dr. Dana explains how to save your marriage and stop the divorce. You’ll discover the power of pausing the divorce and how to make a real plan to get your marriage back on track. You can make a difference. Don’t give up!

Stop Being So Nice

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Lovebites is an original micro-series that focuses on the romantic and domestic exploits of Katie and Max, a witty and spirited twentysomethings couple who are stuck between the carefree college mentality and the seriousness that comes with being an adult. Through lovebites we get a fresh, modern look at how a young couple goes from sharing the bill to sharing keys … and how drama-filled new relationships can be. In this clip, Katie gets frusturated that Max is sometimes TOO nice.

Why You Need To Stop Trying To Change Him

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Would you ever try to change your guy? Weigh in here: http://www.yourtango.com/2015249894/w…

If we’re being totally honest with ourselves, we’ve all had that moment where even though we really liked someone, we still managed to find things about them that we wanted to change. The problem with dating someone because of their potential is that we’re not getting to know who they really are. It goes without saying that there’s no magic marker that will get rid of all your partner’s quirks. If you really love someone, why would you want to change him?

That’s why our experts Renee Jain, Jennifer S. Wilkov, Mary Morrissey, Carolyn R. Owens, and Crystal Kulpcavage stress the fact that while it’s normal for people in a relationship to grow, they have to do it on their own. Honestly, people should only change because they want to, not because of outside factors. If we constantly seek out people who we feel need to change, then it either means that they are not the one for you or you may need to do some changing of your own. Their advice on why you shouldn’t be with someone with the hopes that you can erase their less than desirable traits is totally spot on.

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Relationship Advice : How to Stop Being Clingy

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Someone who is clingy is someone who feels like they can’t be anywhere except right next to a person at all times. Stop being clingy with the wrong person and find someone who likes the attention with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

When you can´t stop thinking of HIM (or her)

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Obsessed? Want him badly? Look at this video…

Sometimes we get so into a special person because that person doesn´t want us – but that makes him/her even more interesting!! Look instead at what you really wish you had.

Tell me if you like it… 🙂

Dating Advice for Women: Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Women

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Dating Tips for Women by Patty Contenta. Patty is the founder and author of Sensuality Secrets, http://sensualitysecrets.com/ a book and DVD set that helps divorced women over 40 who are struggling with their body image feel sexy, feminine, confident, and attract quality male attention without looking cheap or trashy. Patty has become a sought after speaker and radio guest in North America.

Today’s question is Dear Patty, I feel like I’m constantly comparing myself to other women and all I see are all of the ways that I don’t measure up. I know this is unhealthy, but I just feel inadequate. What’s wrong with me and how can I break this bad habit?
I know that feeling all to well. I have had relationships that ended with the a guy dumping me. It would always start on a high note and then something would happen to change all of that. And I remember in those moments feeling like what could I have done better? Was I not enough of a woman for him to see my value? Why am I such a failure? Crazy thoughts like that!

I needed to do some deep inner work to remind myself of the beautiful woman that I am on the inside and out. I needed to be gentle with myself all over again. And I needed to change my thoughts…and fast!

I began by accepting myself for being where I am. This means, take that little girl and remind her every day how wonderful life is! With every tiny step and every thought, I was going to get my confidence back!

So I started by simplifying the meaning of love.

Watch the video and find out how I did just that!

For one of her dating tips please check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=konQo…

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