You Don’t Need To Be Perfect

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Why You Need To Stop Trying To Change Him

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If we’re being totally honest with ourselves, we’ve all had that moment where even though we really liked someone, we still managed to find things about them that we wanted to change. The problem with dating someone because of their potential is that we’re not getting to know who they really are. It goes without saying that there’s no magic marker that will get rid of all your partner’s quirks. If you really love someone, why would you want to change him?

That’s why our experts Renee Jain, Jennifer S. Wilkov, Mary Morrissey, Carolyn R. Owens, and Crystal Kulpcavage stress the fact that while it’s normal for people in a relationship to grow, they have to do it on their own. Honestly, people should only change because they want to, not because of outside factors. If we constantly seek out people who we feel need to change, then it either means that they are not the one for you or you may need to do some changing of your own. Their advice on why you shouldn’t be with someone with the hopes that you can erase their less than desirable traits is totally spot on.

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Just Want To Be Happy? 5 Things You Need To Do RIGHT NOW!

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ven though craving happiness is a part of being human, trying to figure out how to get it definitely isn’t always so clear cut. All of those movies make it seem as if being happy is incredibly easy, which just isn’t always the case—But we’re pretty sure that we all know this based on our own experiences. As crazy as it may sound, many people practically spend a lifetime in the pursuit of happiness. The problem is that figuring out where to even begin can sometimes make the journey feel so far away.

So is there seriously a key to happiness? And if there is, just what exactly do we need to change about our current lifestyle so we can start working on our happy ending?

According to author John Gray, there are actually quite a few simple ways to do this! Even though it may seem easier said than done, you have to remember that things that are worth fighting for take time. His spot-on advice on what we need to do to have have a happy life led us to a few questions of our own:

1. When was the last time you really looked at yourself in the mirror? And we’re not just talking about as part of your morning routine.

2. Can you honestly say that you are satisfied with everything in your life?
3. If you have a lot going on right now, can you pinpoint any ways that you may have inadvertenly contributed to the stress?

Genuine happiness definitely doesn’t happen overnight. But with John Gray’s tips, you’ll get there in no time at all!

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What Does Science Say We Need To Make A Relationship Work?

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Work. Relationship involve a lot of it. But what does it take to make the relationship work for you? Science may have substantially more answers than you might thing. Helen Fisher and our panel of experts explain the science behind relationships and marriages that last.

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ASK April-Do quality men need you to be successful? (Dating Expert April Beyer)

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http://aprilbeyer.com – Dating Coach & Relationship Expert April Beyer. Do you know what men find so valuable about you? In this week’s video, I’ll explain what is truly valuable about you and it’s not your career or the money in your bank account. I’ll also share what you might be doing to sell yourself short in the love department.

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