Reclaim Your Power in a Relationship

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Feeling inadequate and criticized in your relationship? This video teaches you how transform your relationship dynamics by reclaiming your power and self-esteem through deeply examining and evolving your beliefs about yourself.

Dating Tips : How to Recognize “Red Flags” in a Dating Relationship

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Recognize the red flags in a dating relationship by keeping your radar on and trusting your intuition. Learn how to read red flags in a relationship with tips from the author of a book on dating in this free video on relationship advice.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

She Acted Really Interested In You And Then Disappeared – Why?

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A deeper reason for women’s inconsistent behavior, mixed signals, and flaking after they act like they are interested these days is the fact that a common reason they act super friendly and interested is just for attention and to see whether you are actually interested without actually being interested in you. For more useful dating tips and relationship advice, visit
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Marriage Counseling : How to Compromise in Marriages

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Compromising in marriages is a very powerful took for solving problems as a team when facing life situations together. Compromise in marriages through win-win situations with tips from a psychologist in this free video on marriage counseling.

Expert: Reka Morvay
Contact: www.rekamorvay.com
Bio: Reka Morvay is a psychologist and doula with degrees from University of California, Berkeley and Cornell University. She also trained with the Hungarian Association of Cognitive and Behavior Therapy.
Filmmaker: Paul Volniansky

Communicating In Marriage-Learning To Talk And Listen Key

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You hear it all the time, communicating in marriage is the one single factor that can make a marriage strong or weak. You often hear people say that they “just don’t communicate anymore” the truth is in a lot of cases they never really did, at least not in a constructive way.

If you and your spouse have good communications skills right from the start, you will be able to avert many of the problems that plague a lot of marriages. People think that they communicate effectively, but rarely do, with their spouse and often even with other friends and family.

Communicating in marriage isn’t about talking all the time, it’s about listening too. That is the part most people fail at. You “pretend” to listen but in reality your mind is elsewhere. It’s easy to make excuses for that behavior saying things to yourself such as: “I don’t need to listen, she will just repeat it again in an hour” or “Here he goes again, covering the same old ground”.

The truth is that the reason your spouse repeats them self could well be a learned habit. You might have taught them very early on that you don’t really listen or pay attention to them when they talk. They may have developed the habit of repeating themselves just because they don’t think they are ever really being heard.

If that’s the case, it will take some time to reverse the trends, both them repeating themselves and you really learning to listen effectively. Having a counselor help the two of you form more effective methods of communication is a great idea too. Just re-learning some habits can make a world of difference, and with a counselor it’s far less likely that the two of you will get angry or defensive when you hear something less than flattering about yourself.

Another common problem is that one spouse is afraid to really tell the other how they feel. They may be afraid that their spouse will get angry or defensive, or they may be afraid that they will be mocked. Again, this is a pattern of behavior that has likely been in practice since the start of your marriage, but in the beginning the two of you were so in love that you chose to ignore it. Now, years later (and with some built up resentments) it’s harder to ignore.

This too will take some time to overcome and some practice to re-learn habits and patterns of behavior. You may want to get a counselor to help you with this problem too. Again, it’s a good idea to have a counselor point you both in the right direction and help keep the peace when necessary.

I know it sounds obvious, but most people don’t really think of it, but communicating in marriage starts with each individual in the marriage. If one or both of you has trouble really talking, or listening, than this is likely a lifelong problem and it will take some serious time and commitment to unlearn your bad habits and relearn better ones.

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